Fashion Friday: Lingerie & Sleepwear Upgrade

I don’t know about you, but as a lady whose been married going on 9 years, I typically sleep in an old college t-shirt and a pair of rather ratty pj pants.  I admit it, I try very little when it comes to my sleepwear wardrobe.  But you know what, there is something so luxurious and relaxing about treating yourself right and wearing proper pajamas.  No need for uncomfortable see-through jobs with trap-doors and hinges and the like- but just straight up pretty things that make you feel nice. Why not? We deserve it.  Here are some finds to help upgrade your nighttime duds-


Simple. black and with a hint of lace but not Pam Anderson-ish. Totally my bag.

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Adorable short pajama sets. I want BOTH!

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A cute print romper and tank/shorts set that probably feels like sleeping in nothing.

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Zebra jammies. DUH. And a more feminine print floral slip nightie. So pretty.

img18 img8 Classic white nightgowns to match crisp white sheets is a total must-have.  Either slightly sexy or country-girl chic.

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Pair either of these adorable bottoms with an old white tee or tank and you are good to go!

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I finally bought myself a nice robe in classic white. I love it. This black jersey one would be great for summer. And those times I spill coffee all down the front of me (which is everyday- thank goodness for bleach).

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This short robe is so sweet for summer though!


And while we’re talking about it, my whole lingerie situation is pretty sad too. I am all about the nude bras, because let’s face it, they may be a little wah-wah looking but they don’t show under anything! Here are some of my faves:

Classic, fuller coverage bras like these two.

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A strapless bra that actually supports and a racerback perfect for tank tops in the summer.

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I am a BIG fan of the bralette when I want something pretty.  These three are fun, sexy and yet totally comfy!

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For underwear you don’t mess with the best- Hanky Panky and Commando. Both are the only brands I have in my messy as hell underwear drawer. And with mostly nude bras, you can pair them with any color underwear (I will never call them panties, because it’s my least favorite word in the English language).

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Or any cute print like stripes and leopard (my two faves!)

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 *This post is sponsored in part by Nordstrom. All selections and opinions are my own.




  1. Thanks for these posts. It reminds me of how badly I need some new bras! I also tell myself often as I slip into my raggedy pjs that I should buy something comfy/sexy for myself, let alone my husband. But I never want to spend money on something I wear to bed. Its one of those purchases that takes convincing, but is oh so rewarding when you finally do it! Its true, you feel great waking up, sitting around in your pajamas with some coffee on the back deck on a Saturday morning. #nostalgic

  2. ha, what is up with the hate on the word ‘Panties’? Most of my girlfriends wont utter the word, and God forbid someone says ‘Moist Panties’.

    I was just checking out the Hanky Panky bras yesterday because after breastfeeding two kids my boobies have shrunk so much, I can actually wear the cute little bras I never could before. Nothing bums me out more than looking at my once Christina Hendricks sized boobs not fill out my old bras, and finding an attractive bra is heaven.

  3. I would like to nominate “soiled” as one more word that should never be used. ever.

    A couple months back I opened my bra drawer and exclaimed “I’ve had it! I’m going shopping!” And I did. My husband didn’t like that I threw out half of what I owned, or the bill that followed, but I love what I bought and it was a real treat to open up the drawer and love what you see! It’s nice to feel pretty under your clothes!

  4. “trap doors and hinges”– haha.

    I like the word panties, I admit it. I’m all about sleepwear. It’s the best part of the day so why not feel good about it?

  5. Hanky Panky are the best! I am hopeless when it comes to lingerie. All my bras are nude, nothing matches, and my only saving grace is that my underwear of choice happens to be lace. I keep thinking one day I will be put together when it comes to that kind of stuff, but then there’s always going to be other things I would rather spend my money on. Have a great weekend Erin!

  6. Panties is a terrible word. My husband will say it sometimes just to gross me out. Hanky Pankys rule.

  7. i can’t help but chuckle about the “p” word comments,……what is it? i agree! you always seem,more times than not, to resound/relate to where women (at least me) are at! like, yup, the darned nude bras (my hubs hates, but i still buy!). enjoy the weekend,…. great share!

  8. Thanks to a friend I was introduced to Hanky Panky a few years ago, and having a little sexy under the everyday definitely puts a pep in your step!

  9. If you like Hanky Panky’s (half my drawer as well) try Cosabella ‘Cutie’. They are better, I swear.

  10. Thank you for this! I think my own lingerie and sleepwear drawer could use a few new things.

  11. In Australia we just call them “undies” (everyday stuff) or knickers (fancier ones). The p-word is icky.

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